I love TL;DR so mcuh, and you explained it so well, I don't know what to say...This two are so screwed up. Hakuba doesn't want her to feel that bad but at the same time he can't comfort her.

Now He don't want to have Cordelia around either, because she makes him remember Naoto. If you want Naoto to post saying that there's a robot in front of her door go ahead :|