I suppose...but it's hard to accept, I'm competitive by nature.

Semantics. If a person is capable of being in love then a person is capable of exhibiting love. I don't think love has to be one of those outward exhibitions either, if that's the case then I'm in love frequently. A meeting of the minds, caressing of the souls. I imagine it's a point of view...besides there are different kinds of love and different ways of expressing it.

Ach weh, the prophet's dilemma. I guess the other person would just have to have a will stronger than your own. But what consequences?