In certain situations, it can be. There are times when bullheaded determination isn't what's needed.

Gavin, I find it hard to imagine a day where you aren't exceptionally curious. I'm curious as to why I seem to elicit that response more than most, but I...appreciate this gesture of leniency.

The community is responsible for this, not you. I won't ask you to share any information you want to remain hidden.

However, if you'd like to unburden yourself, I'd be willing to listen.